Really don't know

So its saturday and my exam is monday and my computer decides to crash!
As in it won't even let me retrieve any file
I calmed down and decided not to make that flutter me
I later went back home to get my old and faithful
the one i've been using since undergrad
its so beat up that I actually have tape on it to hold the monitor together!
but wey I go do? man must survive!

So like I was saying before, many waters have gone under the bridge and that particular case I was talking about has new developments
I decided to forgive and move on even though it still hurts
but the person decides to turn it around on me
and tell me I acted immaturely and i should pretty much be apologising!
men...the guts people have
some people just truly lack a conscience
so because i forgave easily, does that make me a dummy?
anyway, i'm really trying to just move past the whole thing

On better notes, the banquet is this coming saturday like I was saying
and in my break time yesterday I went to my apartment and found out that I brought a really nice alternative to my dress
Ok, what had happened was... I went dress shopping over the break but was not really successful, so I settled for these 2 dresses
But the one of them I decided to wear had no matching jewelry for it on the Island
so i've been kina wondering how the majic would happen
but anyway, I was very pleased to see that I brought a 3rd dress that I really like and I have the jewelry for it
so now everything is kosher
I also have an idea what I'm going to do with my braids...
I can't wait!
The only damper is that I had written a poem for my friend that I was going to read at the banquet and now it is in the crashed computer!
Someone pls pray that the thing will come to its senses o, and fast too.

So someone raised an arguement the other day..I'll post the entire convo later...(it's in my crashed computer)...the argument was that a guy is not cheating if he's in a sexual relationship with his partner, he can sleep with other girls, as long as he's not married and it will not be cheating
The person also said even if his relationship is not sexual and he's sleeping with other girls, its still not cheating.
His arguement for the 1st senario was that he and the babe had no business sleeping together anyway as they were not married so therefore, there is no small sin or big sin
And for the second was that at least she's not giving him any so he is allowed to find it elsewhere as long as they were not yet married
Therefore, the only place where there is true infidelity is in marriage.

Hmmm....got me thinking. I mean, this is so convinient coming from a guy right?

So I asked him if it was ok for the girl to do the same and he said no! He said its a man's world!
Ok, that's what I don't get. Why is there always a double standard?

So I provoked him by asking if it was ok to say it's a white man's world and that every black man should be subservient to the white man... omo, the boy no gree o. He said I was now crossing boundries. hehehe...boundries? I thought we were defining the world. Abi, can someone help me out on this one.

Anyway, let me stop on that note. I have an exam to write...plus I'm really hungry...can someone spell subway?

later
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